It’s hard to believe 2018 is almost over. I revert to Gretchen Rubin’s saying – The days are long, but the years are short.
- What was the single best thing that happened this past year?
What a great year. It’s so hard to pick! I think I will pick our Cruise to New England and Canada as that encompasses great time with people I love and seeing amazing sights. - What was the single most challenging thing that happened?
My workload took a somewhat unexpected uptick and adjusting to that has been difficult but also an interesting challenge. - What was an unexpected joy this past year?
The ups and downs of preteens not withstanding, it has been just lovely hanging with Tabby. I love hearing her thoughts on things and getting to know her as she evolves into this newly minted mini adult. - What was an unexpected obstacle?
We knew having a puppy would be crazy, but the day-to-day, especially in the early months was very challenging – lots of running home from work early to let her out while Matt was travelling and busting home from skiing, etc. to do the same. So worth it, of course. - Pick three words to describe this past year.
Busy. Wonderful. Loud. - Pick three words your partner would use to describe your year.
Productive. Fun. Crazy. - What were the best books you read this year?
Harry’s Trees, The Hate U Give, The Power of Moments, Grit - Who were your most valuable relationships with?
Matt, Tabby, Ben, Kelly, Dad, a handful of close friends - What was your biggest personal change from January to December of this past year?
I think I’ve gotten better about working to take time for myself and to really sink into chilling again. - In what way(s) did you grow emotionally?
I am better about taking certain situations in stride and not personalizing them. - In what way(s) did you grow spiritually?
I’ve spent a lot more time on reflection and gratitude, which I think has given me better perspective. - In what way(s) did you grow physically?
I’m a better runner than I was last year (slowly gaining this back). - In what way(s) did you grow in your relationships with others?
I have learned to be a bit more chill with the kids and Matt. There are still expectations, but I don’t think I’m as rigid about certain things. - What was the most enjoyable part of your work (both professionally and at home)?
The impact that it had on my coworkers (work) and family (home). - What was the most challenging part of your work (both professionally and at home)?
Living up to my (admittedly pretty high) expectations and also keeping on track for long stretches – things come up! - What was your single biggest time waster in your life this past year?
Probably social media. - What was the best way you used your time this past year?
Toss up between time with my loved ones and my planning and reflection time. - What was biggest thing you learned this past year?
Consistency is key. - Create a phrase or statement that describes this past year for you.
My heart is full. My arms are full. I am grateful.