The Weakend

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It was a kind of disappointing weekend. We put our house on the market on Friday and while most of our friends had had at least two full-price offers by now, we haven’t even had two showings. No idea what’s up – weather? price? market slow??? We’re going nuts over here with frustration. I  know it’s early, but it’s really disappointing.

We worked around the rental house, getting it ready to go and ran off to go skiing on Saturday. That was a bit of a disaster. Long drive up, kids were in foul moods by the time we got there and because of that and the semi-nasty weather, we only got one run in. I took the kids back to our hotel room to play on their ipads until dinner. They went to the kids’ club with our friends’ kids and we all went to dinner with my dad. We cut our evening short since everyone was tired. 

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Sunday we got up bright and early and got the heck out of dodge. I think I have a bit of a reputation for being a Nazi when it comes to getting back to Denver on Sunday and I don’t really care because where the drive took us about 2 hours, it took our friends who left at 11 about 4.5 hours and our friends who left around noon over 6 hours. Our drive was also a lot less … err.. exciting than theirs.

So the weekend was in some ways kind of a bust, but we did start to get more settled into our little Golden house. We bought (on Fri) and built (on Sun) two shelves from Ikea to house pantry goods – this is the single biggest problem with the house – there is no storage available for things like linens or dry goods. That went a long way to getting some boxes cleared out of the kitchen. We actually had dinner there last night!

Tonight we’re heading to dinner with friends after kiddo pickup and then we’ll be back at the rental house, writing more valentines and putting up some other stuff – a key rack/organizer I bought, our TV and reassembling our treadmill. Slowly but surely.

What a Weekend

2014-01-11 10.16.58What a weekend. Oy.

Friday Tabby went home from school with her bestie to start celebrating her bestie’s birthday early. She was gone until late in the evening, so we had a quiet evening at home with Ben – made cookies, prepped for skiing. Just before we needed to pick Tabby up, we ran a couple of errands, including a stop at Target. I glanced through the dollar bin in anticipation of Tabby’s Valentine’s class party and didn’t see much. Ben, however, fell madly in love with a small stuffed dog in the approximately 2 seconds he laid eyes on him. When we said a perfectly-normal “no” to his request to bring him home, we were treated to a 30 minute screech fest fit. This is not normal of Ben. He has mostly recovered from the temper tantrum stage and it was quite a BAD surprise.

Then Saturday… A few weeks ago we agreed to go to the mountains with a bunch of friends. It was sort of an against-our-better-judgement scenario because of all the work we still need to finish before we list our house, but we’d been working really hard and figured “What the heck?” we can take a day off. The plan was to leave Denver early Saturday, get to the slopes in plenty of time, enjoy a nice day, have a nice dinner, sleep our 8 hours and head back to town early.

Best laid plans.

We got going early – not quite as early as we’d planned, but still pretty early. Unfortunately (we found out much later) there’d been an early morning accident that had already hosed the drive. We spent over 3 hours for a 1 hour drive. The kids were well-behaved, plugged into their TVs and we only had a couple of incidents, aside from us wanting to gouge our eyes out from stop-and-go frustration.

One, unfortunately, was when my sister (who decided to join us last minute) had to help Ben pee in a cup – because there wasn’t much of a choice – didn’t go perfectly cleanly. Err …. eew. And the other right before we reached our destination and another car cut us off and we almost hit them. Luckily Matt is a very skilled crap-conditions driver and we avoided collision.

Once we got there, the day, which had supposed to have been nasty, was lovely and we had a few great hours of skiing. The kids were into it. The weather was perfect and other than some small incidents – Tabby’s pass got lost somewhere between the car and the slopes and Ben lost his ski on the first chairlift ride – it was great. We took a dip in the pool and hot tub before we went to our hotel room to get ready for dinner.

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Dinner was probably the easiest time. The kids went to the Kids’ Club and the adults had a nice dinner with multiple adult beverages and perfect viewing of the playoff game. Our allotted 3 hours went really quickly and we picked the kids up right around 9. When we got back to the hotel room, I gave the kids a choice of either sleeping on the floor “camping style!!!” with my much-coveted super-soft green blanket or in the other bed with Aunt Gaga.

My normally mild-mannered 6 year old decided then and there that this was a have-her-cake-and-eat-it-too situation and she was going to have both come hell or high water! So we were treated to another colossal meltdown courtesy of the other kiddo. Making this even more fun was the fact that we were in a hotel and had nowhere else to go and I was constantly worried we were disturbing everyone in the building and our friends next door in particular.

Finally after we threatened (and MEANT IT) to go home,  she calmed down and we all went to bed and got some halfway decent sleep.

The kids were up early as usual and we knew we might have a long drive back to Denver, so we decided to head out. We’d talked about having breakfast with friends before leaving, but when Matt checked the travel advisory site right before we left, he found that things were already looking grim and we bailed on breakfast and headed home.

2014-01-12 09.12.37-2Grim was a sort of understatement. We had intermittent white-out conditions with blowing snow and icy roads. The only saving grace was that we never had them at the same time. It was slow, white-knuckle driving. The kids, once again plugged into their DVDs, behaved very well and there were only a few very scary moments – one complete white out when I really thought we should just turn around. But once again, a 1 hour drive took us almost three going home.

So about 6 hours of driving for about 4 hours of skiing, 3 hours of adult time and a crappy night’s sleep. Really not a great ROI.

Once we got back, we had unpacking, laundry, grocery shopping, cooking and cleaning to do which left us with no time to actually make progress on our house. It’s mostly our own fault, but that doesn’t make it any less irritating. At least the Broncos won.

 

Camping Catch-Up

1Life has been moving along. I’ve really been intending to do lots of things … but I find between work (where I’ve been playing catch-up) and lots of other things, my energy is pretty drained by the end of the day. I’ve been doing good to get dinner on the table and keep up with the family. I think there’s a bit of depression in there, honestly, but I’m allowing myself to be a bit off right now. I don’t have to be super woman. It’s OK. Anyhow, back on topic.

We had two great camping trips this fall that I haven’t talked about. The first one was a group trip (they’re all groups, but this was a BIGGER group). We had 6 campers (pop-ups, hardside campers, an RV and a teardrop) plus a family of tent campers. It was a great site.

Across from where we parked the trailers was a huge hill and about 2/3 of the way up was an abandoned wooden corral that the kids took as their fort … and at the top of the hill …

2A gorgeous view of the lake and the mountains. Then just a quarter mile away

3The lake! Where all the kids, both the dogs and a few adults took a chilly dip.

The kids ran feral. We rode bikes. We played Cards Against Humanity. We saw a wedding from afar. We got rained on. It was easy and fun and nice.

4The next trip just a few weeks later was very different, but no less fun. It was, however, a bit chillier. We saw flakes falling down as we headed up on Friday night, but by the next day it had warmed up and got pretty nice.

5We went for the fall color, but there wasn’t a ton of it available. It didn’t matter though! It was still beautiful weather.

6We were a Mueller State Park and the staff there put on some fun activities: paper making and a nature hike. We also went on quite the long hike of our own.

7My dad and sister joined us, but somehow we didn’t get them in the photos. We didn’t do so well overall with photos this trip. This was far more about the feeling for me … very restive and nice.

And thus ends our epic camping season. It was a decided success and we’re anxious to start panning for 2014.

So We Went to Vancouver

1Well it’s only been a month or so since we actually got back from our trip and finally I’m making the last installment of our travel log … all about Vancouver. The last day of the cruise was a sort of blur. We had to have all of our luggage out in the hall the evening before debarkation. The next morning we got up and went for our last breakfast on the ship. After that, it was the waiting game, waiting for our group … green Tinkerbells … to be called. It didn’t take TOO long and then we were off and back into the real world.

We couldn’t check into our hotel right away so Matt and I walked a few blocks and got the rental car and then we went to Granville Island, a nice little shopping district just outside mainland Vancouver. We had some eats and poked around the shops and then we went back to the hotel. Naps and pizza ordered in finished out our day. Everyone was exhausted.

2The next day we headed out to Stanley Park. It is a huge park on the edge of the island, bigger, even than Central Park. We had a nice walk through the park to the aquarium and spent some time there.

3They had an amazing jellyfish exhibit with tons of different jellies that we’d never seen before. They were eerily beautiful.

4After lunch and some time at the playground …

5we went to the sprayground and had some fun in the sun.

We spent the rest of the afternoon, driving around Vancouver and checking out this and that. We had dinner at restaurant that specializes in mac ‘n’ cheese. Pretty tasty.

6The next day, we got up and headed out on the Sky Train (Vancouver mass transit) and went to British Columbia Science World. This is an AWESOME science museum for the whole family. The whole first floor was filled with great optical illusions and brain teasers that we all played with. Off the first floor, there’s other neat things to “experience” – pneumatic ball mazes, large scale spirographs, all sorts of audio play, a target practice game, etc. etc. We didn’t even get to see all of it because there’s so much.

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We had lunch there and then afterward we took the train back a couple of stops to Chinatown. We checked out some of the interesting shops and bought some cheap tshirts. We finished out the day with dinner at a Chinese restaurant and packing … including taking the car back.

The next day was all about travel. We got up around  7 to head to the airport at 8. We had to check in, go through customs, find food to take on the plane and burn up some energy on the nice little playground that was right by our gate. Our plane left a little late and when we got to Dallas, the Nashville crowd had to run for their plane while we waited on the stroller and then ran it over to them. Once they were safely off, we grabbed some dinner, including a couple of GIANT margaritas at TGI Fridays.

We had a long layover, so we made good use of the free Wifi at the airport and let the kids run around in a little play area. Our plane was unfortunately delayed and so we didn’t get back into Denver until well after midnight. We had a few misteps … got back on the highway going the wrong direction and took forever to find gas, meaning we didn’t get home until after 2. Man were we all glad to see home sweet home.

The Haps

1So … a mea culpa on continuing to suck at blogging. I’m trying hard not to give up. But a LOT is going on!! Tons!

We went to family reunion. Where we did things like … hike to a waterfall.

2And take family photos… most of which my kids managed to screw up by being goofy.

3We celebrated other stuff too. Like Matt’s and my 11th anniversary. We mainly goofed around and played video games and stuff like that. Simple.

We celebrated my dad’s b’day! Tabby made him a chocolate cake.

4Then the kids started school yesterday!! Technically nothing changed for Ben. He moved to the next class at the beginning of the summer, but we made a big deal like he was just starting too. The super good news is that his best buddy has now moved back into his class. Yay!

5Tabby started first grade! She’s in official specials classes (art, music, PE) and having a lot of fun.

6Her first day was made that much more special because she lost her very first tooth!! During story time. She wants to keep it forever and has refused to surrender it to the tooth fairy in return for the cash reward. Ah well.

So that’s the haps!

We Went on a Cruise Part 2

9So the cruise wasn’t just about being on a cruise. It was about seeing ALASKA! And we did.

Note: before I go on, I must give props to the post-processing my talented husband did in Photoshop. He brought out the colors beautifully and removed some of the haze you get in the area – STUNNING!

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Anyhoo, one of our days at sea was basically dedicated to checking out the Tracy Arm glacier/area. It is incredible. They do narration on the televisions so you can sit on your balcony and listen to what you’re seeing as you float by, but mostly we spent our time on deck 10 with the masses, enjoying panoramic views. They make it special and have plenty of blankets and hot chocolate available.

17The glacier itself is kind of beautiful, but the scenery around it is spectactular. We didn’t see any “calving” where hunks of ice fall off the glacier into the water and make huge waves, but we did see seals and bald eagles. That was neat (photos were way too far away to be any good!).

11Our first day in port was at Skagway where we mad the excellent choice to ride the railway into BC. This was our favorite shore excursion and though it was LONG (and ended with a fairly cheesy gold-panning deal), it was worth it. The views were amazing.

12This is the very aptly named “inspiration point.”

18At the top, where it sort of levels out, there are the most amazing streams with either absolutely crystal clear water (from rainfall) or this beautiful blue water from glacial melt.

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Our second port of call was Juneau where we went to see the Mendenhall Glacier … see cheesy tourist shot above ….

15and whale watching. We got far too little time on the glacier unfortunately and probably a little too much time on the whale watching boat. We did see a whoooole bunch of whales though!! This photo is of them doing “bubble feeding” in a group of nine.

14We also got to see sea lions which I thought were possibly cooler than the whales, though they don’t do much. These guys are the jumbo-sized cousins of the California variety you see at zoos. These are “juveniles” that will grow to be about 4x the size of the CA ones.

16Our last port was Ketchikan. It was mostly tourist-trap type shopping (we shipped ourselves home a ton of smoked salmon). We took a Duck tour there which was pretty meh. A duck is an amphibious vehicle. The original ones were used in the D-Day invasion in WW2. This is a modern duck. I’ve been a few duck tours before and they were always fun but this one either because of our narrator or because of the “sights” of Ketchikan was not too great – but at least it was short!

Shore excursions were OK, but there are a lot better options when your kids get older – cycling, hiking, etc. I would also pick with a more careful eye next time. I think some of the ones that included food (freshly caught salmon or crab!) would be great. Everything we went on, even the 6 hour ones really didn’t have much available and we were starving when we got back to the boat. Makes for cranky kids and parents.

I’m planning another post on our time in Vancouver and then a general post about my experiences cruising with Disney (hopefully before the week is out) and that will finish up my More Than You Probably Wanted to Know About Our Vacation series.

So … We Went on a Cruise (Part 1)

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So much for my resolution to get back blogging regularly again, eh? Well I’ve got a terrific excuse. We spent the last two weeks away from home – cruising to Alaska on The Disney Wonder and checking out the sites of Vancouver. We traveled with Grammy Sherrie, Aunt Theresa and “Baby” Autumn (20 mos and not so much a baby!). It was a wonderful once-in-a-lifetime sort of trip.

2As with anything like this, the first day was a long day of travel. We left our house around 3 AM (MST) and didn’t get on the ship until around 3P (PST). There was a lot of hurry-up-and-wait which is always frustrating, especially with kids. There was also some sort of SNAFU with a passport and whereas we thought we could skip immigration/customs, we ended up having to go through it after all. No idea how much time that would have saved us, but anything would have been welcome because once we got on the ship, none of us had eaten in hours and were all starved, but everything was closed for the mandatory drill and we couldn’t get food until after we sat through a 30 min lecture on how to put on a lifejacket.

Irritating, but it was quickly forgotten when we could get a nice snack (tasty pizza) on deck 9.

3We spent the first day (an at-sea day) exploring the ship. The sucker is huge. 11 decks (3 pools fit on one deck to give you an idea how long they are) and it’s pretty easy to get turned around at first, forgetting what you’re headed to is forward or aft. The ship was put into service in 1998 and it’s in remarkably good shape especially since it probably sees around 1000 kids per voyage.

Speaking of kids, I’m sure you won’t be surprised to hear that lots and lots of stuff really caters to kids. After we got our kids tagged, we checked them into the club or the lab at least once a day for an hour or more. They had non-stop stuff to do at one place or the other and the kids could go back and forth as they desired. They built pasta houses and tested them ala the three little pigs. They went to Ratatouille cooking school. They became Rescue Rangers. They also played hours of Mario Kart and princess dressup. They loved it and frequently wanted to go there over doing anything else.

And when they were with us we had lots of fun too. We all spent a lot of time in the pool watching “Funnel Vision” on-deck Disney movies played over the mid-ship pool, and watching movies in the indoor Disney movie theatre (including Monsters U, Peter Pan and Wreck-It Ralph). There were lots of other great family activities – game shows, contests, karaoke, dancing, etc. that will be a bit more appropriate as the kids get older.

8While the kids were busy, Matt and I did lots of the adults-only stuff the ship has to offer. We did a whiskey tasting. We spent hours relaxing in the hot tub, in our state room, in the cafes. We had dinner at the ship’s adults only restaurant, Palo, which was awesome. We even got workouts in on all of the at-sea days. There was a running track on deck 4 that went around the whole ship (about 1/3 mile) and a gym in the spa area.

7Our whole family got dressed up for formal night (nod to Black and Bianco where we got Ben’s suit for $25). It was fun to get dressed up though it’s not very strictly enforced we noticed. The same night they did The Golden Mickeys for the main evening entertainment.

6So the kids got to walk the red carpet and take in a “live” show. We did two of the 7 evening’s entertainments. Since they didn’t start until 8:30 it was hard after a long day to keep the kids up ’til 9:30, but they did this one and Matt also took them to Toy Story the Musical another night. They were fun for the kids but a bit tedious for the adults. They also had some magicians, a hypnotist, Monsters U in the big theatre and Disney Legends, which is another musical type show.

The entire ship experience was excellent and we had a wonderful time. I’ll share more tomorrow about our off-ship experiences.

Camping at Sylvan Lake

1This past weekend we went camping at Sylvan Lake State Park, just outside Eagle, CO. It’s a beautiful Colorado State Park near a crystal clear mountain lake.

2Gorgeous.

4We spent lots of time out on the lake, canoeing around and “fishing.” The rangers at the park put on some good programs too and we went to the one about insects!

3Everyone loved that. The kids caught damsel flies, bee flies (they’re flies that look like bees), grasshoppers and probably 10 more bugs I’ve already forgotten about.

5We did a lot of relaxing which was great. We did make it up the pass to check out an old abandoned fishing camp. You could peek in the windows and see bunkbeds and wood stoves and newspapers from 1985.

This was the last of the first batch of camping trips we scheduled this year, but we’ve got two more planned for September. It’s been really great fun and I’m so glad we’ve been able to do this with the kids.

Down but Not Out

I’ve had nice little emails and texts from people who have been missing the blog – family from far away who only get to see us regularly through this medium and friends from afar who enjoy catching up on my life as I do theirs (even though I haven’t had time lately). I’ve been missing it too, along with other things. But work is the time bandit right now, stealing what precious time I used to use for blogging. It hasn’t been unusual lately for me to work 11 or 12 hours in a single day without a break. I know it won’t always be like this, but it is going to be different. Anyhow, let’s play catchup:

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The Kids

The kids are having a great summer. Tabby is at school with Ben and both of them LOVE IT. She also has a couple of friends from school and other venues (a family friend, soccer) in her class and that makes her very happy. Ben was moved up to the next level at the beginning of the summer. This was bittersweet because he and his best friend, Cruz, were separated. However, it was in some ways for the best as they are a wild comedy duo and his behavior is improved.

We have been going swimming at least once weekly and traveling tons which the kids LOVE. They are both looking forward to our cruise immensely and Ben keeps asking to “see the Disney Cruise stuff!” whenever he sees Matt or I at the computer. Tabby is reading everything she comes across and has really stepped up her game big time. There’s not much now she can’t read, at least with a little help.

me+mattyMatt and I

With me working so much, it’s been hard not being able to spend as much time with Matt. He’s also been picking up some major slack that I’ve dropped lately and doing it with grace and generally good humor. Since the weeks have been so crazy, we’ve been trying to get out for date nights whenever we can. We’ve tried out some new restaurants, gone to see some movies and been pretty lazy. It’s nice.

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Another thing we’ve been doing together is training! I am signed up for my first triathlon near the end of August and so I’ve been training with one of my friends and then sometime with Matt. It’s been some early morning swims in the pool and some weekend bike rides. A few weeks ago my friend and I did an open water swim. The best thing I can say about it was that I didn’t drown. Still, by the end of it, I had new confidence in my abilities and I feel like when I attempt it again later this week, I will do much better.

Aside from tri-training, the rest of my working out hasn’t been awesome. I was going to bootcamp only once or twice a week and since I’m going to miss the last two weeks of July anyway (since we’re traveling), I took the month of July off. The lack of fees alone paid for me wetsuit. Yay.

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What’s probably compounded this whole work situation immeasurably is all the travel we’ve been doing on the weekends. A couple of weekends ago, we had our third camping trip of the season, to Cow Creek (above). It was wonderful, but it’s also been exhausting. In addition to camping, we went to Vail for the holiday weekend (and got back around 11:30 on Sunday night). We’re heading off for our big summer trip with Matt’s family in less than 2 weeks.

Still, we’ve had a wonderful time, and I want to share some of our adventures.

workWork!

Despite the fact that I’m working hard, overall, I am really enjoying my new role.  It is definitely not all rainbows and sunshine, but we’ve won a few projects since I’ve started and that is a really really awesome feeling. I get to do a lot of stuff I’m good at and enjoy, like laying out pretty marketing materials, managing databases and organizing things. It’s also an excellent challenge, which I really thrive on.

But my vacation in 2 weeks is going to be very very well deserved.

 

So that, in a nutshell, is life right now. I hope to make at least one more post this week and slowly get back to doing 3-5/week and also reading some of my other favorite blogs. Life is good. It’s just very very busy.

Camping at Maroon Bells

1We had the good fortune of booking the only two camper sites in the Silver Bells campground near the Maroon Bells outside Aspen. Aside from the nearly 4 hour drive, there is nothing but good to say about this spot. The campground is beautiful. Check out the views.

6The bells, super famous and very beautiful aren’t far from the campsite. We parked nearby and took a short hike to view the bells.

3Then we hiked to crater lake, about 2 mile away. The water is so clear you can see to the bottom of the water from all the way up on the trail.

2Ben, our most novice hiker, did a great job, hiking almost the whole way without too much whining.

4Loki probably enjoyed the hike more than anyone. He went swimming in Crater Lake, chasing sticks for about 30 minutes. Just wish it had helped out his spring shedding!

5The area is named for the beautiful aspen trees that are found everywhere. Aspens are the largest organisms in the world as a whole grove is linked by roots underground. This accounts for them all changing color at once.

We went into the town of Aspen a couple of times … once by car. We walked around and got ice cream and firewood and checked out the scene. It’s a pretty town. There are a bunch of pretty older homes and it’s been kept up well. We also got a nice bike ride with the kids in on Sunday just before we left.

We’d love to go back and next time we’d love to stay a little longer.