Playing Catch-Up

The kids were feeling a little Grinchy.
The kids were feeling a little Grinchy.

Well things are rolling along sometimes fairly normally. The kids are doing great, growing and learning by leaps and bounds. We register Ben for kindergarten next month. I can hardly believe it. Tabby has been having fun with spirit week at her school (see green hair above) and even Ben got in on the action.

My nutcracker sweets.
My nutcracker sweets.

The kids have been enjoying the season and all of the fun things it has to offer. We saw The Nutcracker with some friends last week. Everyone really enjoyed it. Tabby has been studying Waltz of the Flowers in music class and she and her little buddies could be seen doing hand motions as it played. The kids both took home nutcrackers (joy! rapture!) to add to our Christmas decorations.

Tabby baked cookies yesterday and has asked to make apple cider caramels again. She’s also been asking about Elf on the Shelf which all of her friends have. We do not have one and I made an executive decision that this was not the year to get it. I love the creativity behind setting up the tableaus, but I a) don’t have time and b) am not really into the Santa deception thing, particularly as it pertains to manipulating my children’s behavior.

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We have been doing lots on the house situation, particularly as it pertains to getting our house ready to sell. We are finished retiling the master bathroom (a project we should have done YEARS AGO). It was ridiculously tedious because there were tons of things to work around and a diagonal wall. We had a family friend come in and help us knock out the last stage in record time, and despite how the above looks (don’t mark tiles when it’s late and you are STOOPID) …

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It turned out really well. AND I’m so glad to have it done. Well mostly done – still have to put the trim back and reset the toilet. OY.

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We have also been busy picking finishes for the new house. Above is our fireplace surround tile (bottom) and kitchen backsplash (top). I am very excited to see all of this start to take shape … but it will be a while. We had a snafu with our site plan and we STILL haven’t gone to permitting. It is resolved and we got a nice $25k option for FREE out of the deal, but it is frustrating. It should go in by the end of this week. I am anxious to start seeing dirt flying. Hopefully BEFORE we put our house on the market.

What else has been happening?

2013-12-12 16.15.21Matt and I saw a wholly unsatisfactory Broncos game (they lost). At least the seats were awesome.

2013-12-11 07.05.41It’s been cold (this hampered the tile project) … but also warm.

2013-12-10 21.59.32Tabby lost another tooth, but the tooth fairy still has yet to get ahold of one of Tabby’s teeth – she kept the last one and lost this one before she could turn it in. The note was more than fair payment though, I say.

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I made quite a few Sunday dinners, including Pioneer Woman’s pot roast. YUM.

Overall, I’m doing OK and in some ways, improving, I think. I have decided that based on my job right now and our lives that early morning workouts are no longer working for me, so I have been doing evening workouts for over a week now and it actually seems to be sticking. Thank goodness. Not that I’ll say no to a nice early(ish) morning run when it works, but as a rule, this is working better for me right now. Working out just makes me feel good. And I’d been missing it and it seems to be helping.

I’m even looking forward to Christmas a little.

 

Looking for Christmas

2013-12-04 08.31.05The view from my office is cold and snowy this fourth of December in the hardest year of my life so far. It wasn’t a particularly fun (or horrible) drive to work and I’d much rather be skiing than marketing today.  Despite those feelings, I’m glad to see the white stuff again simply because it’s putting me a wee bit in the Christmas spirit.

Since I moved back home with Matt in tow almost 10 years ago, we’ve spent almost every Christmas morning at my parents’ house. We even slept over on Christmas Eve most of the time simply because we could. Christmas is big, important and fun and filled with traditions. And a helluva lot of that centered around my mom and the tremendous effort she put into making Christmas nice for everyone.

I think we’ve all been feeling that if left to our own devices, Christmas 2013 might just not happen – or we might just all jet off to Tahiti. We’re not really feeling in the holiday spirit this year. But of course there are two little people who are counting on their big day being just as big and fun as it always has been. And while I don’t think it will be exactly the same, I am determined to do it up right for them.

So a different plan has been hatched this year. It will be light on the presents but hopefully approaching the normal level of joy. Instead of being at Mom and Dad’s we’ll assemble at our house. I feel like this will be a nice send-off for the little house we’ve called home for the past 9 years. Christmas brunch won’t be at my grandma’s – she moved to assisted living earlier this year – we’ll do it smaller at our house. Christmas dinner will be bigger and my dad will host … with us to help.

I’m sure I’ll cry. Maybe a lot. But hopefully we can bask in the real meaning of the season – a pause to appreciate all we have and celebrate with those we love.

Thanksgiving Weekend

cookingThe 4 days off went by in a blink. We kicked off the season by cooking Wednesday evening. We were responsible for Cranberry Cornbread Dressing and Sweet Potato Spoon Bread. We made a huge mess of the kitchen and then cleaned it up like good elves.

We had high hopes of turkey trotting like we have for the past several years on Thanksgiving morning, but the kids were nursing colds and we reluctantly begged off at the last minute. Instead we took a walk and drove around the new hood a bit. Then we went up to my uncle’s for thanksgiving. It was a very enjoyable afternoon and evening of family time … right up until I saw the corner of Ben’s eyes filled with what looked like boogers. Ick. Pink eye. We left immediately and I called the docs to get a prescription called in.

demoing

Friday was an odd sort of lost day. Matt and the kids demo’d the carpet in our master bath (ick). I took Ben to the doctor’s when his ears started bugging him (ear infection, antibiotic #2).

planningWe planned and cut the hardee board for laydown in the bathroom.

drinkingIn the evening we went out for a cousins night – where we actually had ALL EIGHT cousins from my mom’s side of the family. We had a nice dinner at Ace and then …

bowlingWent bowling! It was great fun – something I haven’t done in ages.

trainspottingSaturday we devoted the vast majority of the day to helping my sister move. The kids were supposed to have karate, but they were still under the weather and a bit mopey, so we put them up on their own in a corner of her apartment with some coloring books and an ipad and they did their thing while we carried boxes and furniture.

We came home pretty “early” and let the kids play while Matt and I rested up from our crazy day. Then we put the kids to bed and laid down the hardee board. I laid down the thinset – this is my specialty as it is a good deal like frosting a cake – and then Matt came behind me and screwed the board down. This week sometime we  need to seal up the joints and actually lay down and grout the tile … but for now we’re showering in the basement (boo).

bustingSunday I was determined to get the kids out of the house for some fun – they’d been real troopers, amusing themselves while we moved my sister and other boring stuff. So we took them to see the Mythbusters exhibit at our local museum. It was a pretty fun exhibit with lots of hands on stuff.

buildingLike building houses out of brick or wood or straw ala the three little pigs and then testing them in a wind tunnel. You could make an airplane take off on a conveyer belt, time yourself hanging from a cliff, drive “blind” with someone giving you instructions and some other things.

grinningWe followed it up with tours around the dinosaur and Egyptian galleries (Ben’s single odd desire).

2013-12-01 13.07.13We spent the next few hours at Ikea. We had lunch and went around looking for things for the new house and picked up a few things for the current house – namely light kits to replace our the fan and special light fixtures in the kids rooms that we will be taking with us.

We finished out the day with grocery shopping, house cleaning, laundry-doing and Sunday dinner … of course followed by Grammy stories.

I was supposed to take Monday off, but instead had a very busy, harassed day. Ugh. So so so looking forward to my week off in January.